When Love Is More Than Words

Publication Date: October 15, 2024
Nancy Paulsen Books
Illustrated by
Julia Kuo
ISBN: 978-0-5935-3357-4

A beautiful story about a family who shows their love in a multitude of ways

There are so many ways to say “I love you” without saying a word! One little girl sees the love shown in her family by the way they nurture one another through stories, food, and spending time together. With great-grandparents, grandparents, parents, aunts, uncles, and siblings around, there are so many ways for love to shine through.

Jocelyn Chung's lyrical text and Julia Kuo's vibrant illustrations beautifully portray and celebrate an extended Taiwanese family whose caring actions speak louder than words.

Critical Praise

“There’s more than one way to say ‘I love you.’

An unnamed Asian-presenting child notes, “Some people say they love you with hugs, kisses, and three special words…But in my family, we do something different.” Actions big and small and contextual clues send the same message. Great-grandma A-tzo always gives her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren the most luscious loquats from her garden. A patch of blooming blue irises planted by the child’s now-deceased grandpa Keyo A-gong is a reminder of his presence. Mama saves the young narrator the tastiest part of the fish—“even if it means she gets the tail.” Observing siblings, aunties, uncles, and more caring for one another, the child realizes that “I have a village of people around me.” It’s through “their laughter / their sacrifices / and their presence” that the child hears “I love you.” Chung’s elegant text is rife with concrete details, while Kuo deftly uses bold colors, black lines, and textures to create warmly energetic scenes of family gatherings and tables heaped with food. With joy and tenderness, Chung and Kuo convey an important truth; young people whose families express love in different ways will feel seen, heard, and embraced. Phrases in Taiwanese and Japanese appear throughout.

Readers will feel the love—in every well-chosen word and each exquisite image.


—Kirkus, Starred Review

“The caring acts of loved ones are the focus of this first-person work that models how affection can be relayed by actions. As the title opens, a young narrator notes how, instead of using the ‘three special words’ that others employ, a great-grandmother grows loquats and lima beans so that ‘her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren/ can have bellies full of her love.’ A grandfather showed devotion by planting bright blue irises when the protagonist was born, and the flowers deliver an annual birthday message: ‘Even though I’m not with you anymore,/ I still love you.’ The child’s mama offers others the best parts of a fish (‘even if it means she gets the tail’) and cares for elders, actions that lead to younger generations, too, participating. Conveying close-up images of family pairs caring for each other, Kuo’s sharply drawn digital illustrations use a graphic style with flat planes of color to suggest a depth of love expressed.”

— Publisher’s Weekly, Starred Review

Honors & Awards

When Love Is More than Words is a Junior Library Guild Gold Standard Selection

When Love Is More than Words 
was included in The Children’s Book Council’s October 2024 Hot Off The Press Reading List

When Love Is More than Words 
has been selected for the Society of Illustrators 2024 Original Art Show

When Love Is More than Words has been selected for Kirkus’ Best Picture Books of 2024

When Love Is More than Words has been selected for LA County Librarian’s Staff Favorites of 2024

Interviews

AsianBossGirl Podcast
No Dumb Questions with Mel: Generations of Love - How Jocelyn Chung’s Grandparents Shaped Her First Children’s Book

  • In this heartwarming episode of No Dumb Questions, I’m thrilled to welcome Jocelyn Chung, a graphic designer, creator, and newly-published children's book author, to the podcast! We instantly connected during my last visit to Taiwan, and today we’re diving into her debut book, “When Love is More Than Words”, a story that beautifully captures how love transcends language, especially within Asian families—a theme that deeply resonates with me, having grown up with my grandparents and extended family.

    Jocelyn shares the inspiration behind her book, how her upbringing in a Taiwanese-American household influenced her storytelling, and the creative journey from designer to author. We also explore the challenges she faced as a first-time author and the cultural values she hopes to pass on through her work. Whether you love children's books or simply believe in the power of love beyond words, this episode is a must-listen!

But Where Are You Really From Podcast
When Love Is More Than Words ft. Jocelyn Chung

  • Jocelyn Chung is a Taiwanese-American graphic designer and writer whose new children's book "When Love Is More Than Words" was just released this week!

    In this episode we of course discuss the book, including its inspiration being a beautiful real life realization she had with her grandfather, all the fun Taiwanese easter eggs, and more, and also discuss her recent journey of claiming her Taiwanese citizenship and starting a life and community in Taiwan, and how all of this helped her feel at home within herself in reflecting on her own identity.

Curious about the illustration process?

Discover Julia’s art
behind the book.